Fantastic Online Life Coaching For Women Tips For Staying Young
Posted on Thursday, February 4, 2010 at 10:50 amCategory: Job Related Stress
It’s time to celebrate when you hit one of those 10 year anniversaries!
For some, this can be a great time for reflection and to look back at what you have achieved and how you have enjoyed your life so far. For others, reaching such a milestone can be a bit troubling, as you may fret whether you have really achieved enough and where you might be in another ten years.
We should all reflect on our stage in life, where we are personally, financially and emotionally. It’s also quite common for a woman, busy raising a family, to think about her sexual appeal and its effectiveness when she gets to the big 40.
It’s very true to say that we all become more philosophical as we age. Being philosophical is a result of experience as we have a lot to reflect on and a lot of positive knowledge to put in place. Each decade milestone will find us in a very different place in our book of life and we will look back on our memories in a different way and look forward to what we have ahead of us with a fresh perspective. As our interpretations change as we age, when you get to 40 you will definitely look at things in a different light as compared to ten years previously.
Those of us who have experienced and loved being a 40-year-old mum, know that our sexuality owes a lot to our maturity, from an emotional and mental perspective. We don’t feel insecure and have a certain amount of natural dignity which comes with our position.
Whenever problems arise, we rely on our sassy approach to dealing with these situations, breezing through such problems with apparent ease and feeling good about it while we do!
Often times, professional coaching is a marvellous boost for mums, whatever page of life they find themselves on and especially if they find an upcoming milestone to be challenging. The word “sexy” means different things to different people and will certainly have its own interpretation in your eyes.
Physically you will have a different appearance of course, but with your maturity you need to learn to trust yourself to make the most of your looks every day. For example, do as the old screen sirens did – learn how you look better in certain lights and always present your best side to a camera! Emotionally and mentally, however it is likely that you are much sexier and more appealing for every year that you age.
You have achieved a lot so far and should be proud of it and fully secure. Look at your children and be rightly proud of the loving relationship you have with your partner. Remember that life is only really enjoyable when you truly love yourself, first and foremost. In most cases, online life coaching experts can be consulted whenever you are feeling a little down about those upcoming big milestones, so important to everyone else!
Remember that life begins at 40 and when coaching for women in this position I often remind them that the biggest favour they can do themselves is to think and act “young.” If you did not know, how old would you say you were, right now? Hopefully the answer to this question isn’t “90″! Fabulous 40 mum, go and get them!
Amanda Alexander is the Director of Coaching Mums and a widely renowned ICF-accredited coach who delivers professional coaching programmes to working moms across the globe who long for more time, balance and fulfilment in their busy lives. Download our free eBook especially for working mums with 5 easy ways to achieve balance.